We often feel depressed and want to be happy but we cannot see that even the
smallest changes around us can make us happier. So, here are ten ways by which
we can be a more happier person than before.
1. Sleep Properly
Happiness means fighting off stress and stay
fresh and fit. If you are not sleeping enough you feel more fatigued,
stressed hungry and much more. Sleeping make you stress free, heels your
damages. More sleep means
less hunger so you have a lesser weight and good looks which obviously make
you happy from inside.
2. Practice mindfulness
Mindfulness is waking up, connecting with ourselves and connecting with
every moment of life. It is the trending topic in western psychology as it is
effectively reduced stress, increase self awareness, enhances emotional
intelligence and handles negative thoughts and feelings. It means paying
attention in a particular way, in the present moment and none judgmentally
which is one more way to make you happier.
3. Stretch
As soon as you get up, throw your arms to the sky and inhale deeply. Bend
down and try to touch your toes. Loosen up your body that’s been still for an
entire night. Do a few jumping jacks. Move your neck around in circles. Stretch!
Stretching makes your muscles
relax and reliefs from the pain. You will feel more stronger
from inner self when you stretch and bend. You will find that you
understand and work with your body. Take time to listen to your body as we many
times we ignore what it wants to say. It will definitely make you happy.
4. Laugh out loud
Joy is contagious and you can totally spread it. Laughing makes you relief
from the stress and as I mentioned earlier makes you more happy.
5. Go Outside
6. Just say no
We should learn to say NO to the things we really don't like. It's better to
not doing than badly doing.
Don't force yourself to do things which you haven't interested in. Eliminate
activities that aren’t necessary and that you don’t enjoy. After all, you have
your own priorities and needs, just like everyone has his/her own needs. Saying
no is about respecting and valuing your time and space.
7. Social around
Meet your loved ones once in a week or as it suits you. One of the most
powerful ways to better your relationship with happiness is to surround
yourself with people who want to make a difference. When we feel safe and
supported, we don’t have to narrow in on survival tasks like responding to
danger or finding our next meal. We are able to explore our world, which builds
resources for times of stress and adversity.
8. Accept yourself
If acceptance feels so good, then why don’t we accept ourselves? We hate
ourselves for being fat to get ourselves to diet. We judge ourselves
unfavorably with the hope it will motivate us to change. Does this work?
Hardly.
Acceptance allows change. The "acceptance mode"
includes everything, even my judgments. It allows me to be okay now, even
before I reach my goals.
9. Befriend Failure
Do not be afraid of failure. Always remember failure is the key to success.
I’m not going to say you will ever reach the point to where you will actually
enjoy failure, but with each mistake you make there is always a lesson to be
learned. As soon as you accept it you will be more happy.
10. Choose happiness
We always hand between the past and future and do not focus on present.
Learn from your past decisions and actions and make your present beautiful. Of
course, there are things in our lives that we cannot control, yet for the most
part, your actions or lack of them is responsible for your present
circumstances.
There is no formula to be happy but we can be happy
simply by understanding our self what makes us happy.
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